Friday, November 25, 2011
A Love Story // Guest Post from CaitlinTags : guest post .
Hi Adalou readers! Sandi asked me to write a guest post and I am happy to oblige. I love her, her awesome shop and her fabulous blog! I blog over at To Make Love Stay about my life with my husband, Rob, our dog, Cypress, and various things that capture my fancy on a semi-daily basis.
A lot of what I write has to do with marriage and our life now that my husband is out of the Army and back from a combat deployment to Iraq. Today I really wanted to share with you our love story. I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I do! :)
Rob and I met in high school. We're from a really small area, and had tons of connections that we had never realized. For example, his stepmother was my sister's kindergarten teacher, and his father, a physician, at one point worked with my mother, a nurse.
Rob was in a band and was madly in love with a girl. Nobody knew who she was because he was very tight-lipped about it. He would write her these beautiful songs and sang them with his band (spoiler alert: it wasn't me...we hadn't met yet!). One day I went to go see the band play. I met the band and long story short, I started dating the bassist. We were together for 2 months, but throughout that entire time Rob and I would talk for hours online, and would frequently talk about how we wanted to hang out without my bassist boyfriend around. He even confessed to me who "mystery girl" was after about 2 weeks of knowing each other. He was not an overly trusting person but knew that he could trust me.
One night in December we were talking online and he told me that though he could tell me everything, he had one secret he could not share. I kept asking what it was, and told him that I had a “secret” too. Eventually I confessed my feelings, which he clearly reciprocated. I broke up with my boyfriend the next day, talked to Rob for literally hours, and he told me that he loved me. The first time we ever held hands we cried together and I could literally see his heart beating through his shirt (whoa teenagers). A few weeks later was our first Valentine's Day. As a surprise Rob sang me a song he had written for me in front of our entire high school cafeteria. If you know Rob you know that he is extremely shy, and this was huge for him. Of course I collapsed into dramatic tears amongst the jealous sighs of my classmates, and all I could see or hear was him. It was lovely.
We spent the next year and a half in young-love-bliss until he left for the Army, which I had known was his dream since childhood. I skipped school on April 13, 2004 and we had our last full, non-Army day together. On April 14, he went to Basic Training, and from then until July we only communicated through letters and two 3-minute phone calls. On the weekend of July 4, I traveled to Georgia to visit him for a 30 hour pass. 30 hours seemed like forever after being apart so long, but was gone in an instant. After Basic and Airborne School, he was then stationed in Anchorage, AK while I went to college in Wisconsin.
As we were too young to get married, we stayed together without tying the knot for the next four years. I was in college so we only saw each other every 2-3 months or so. I think the longest amount of consecutive time we spent together at a time was 2 weeks. This went on until 2006, when he left for Iraq. He was there during one of the bloodiest times in the war, and he was on the front lines (MOS 11B - Infantry for you military folk) which did him no favors. He was shot and was involved in several IED explosions, but miraculously survived. Rob was in quite a few dangerous situations but always made it out relatively unscathed, a fact that he owes to the existence of a tiny stuffed raccoon that I had given him early in the relationship. I had been given the raccoon when I was 4 and in the hospital with a tumor in my kidney. He carried her with him always and to this day swears that he'd be dead if he didn't have her (and, by proxy, me) with him always. He even got a tattoo of the raccoon, named Elizabeth.
In May 2008 I graduated college and he got out of the army forever. We have lived together in happiness and love since. Rob began his postsecondary education, only a few years late, and is studying Environmental Science. He will graduate in May 2012. On Valentine's Day 2009 he sang me a song in our living room (reminiscent of our first Valentine's Day) and proposed to me. Very clearly I said yes, and we had the wedding of our dreams on July 10, 2010.
I feel extremely fortunate to have met and married my best friend. For Rob and I, staying together was never a question or a doubt. My relationship with my husband has always come easily to me, the only thing I'm totally sure of in my life aside from my family. When I look back on what we've gone through and how it strengthened us, I am filled with pride, love and happiness.
Thanks to Sandi for letting me share this with you! Have a wonderful day!
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I really enjoy reading Caitlin's blog, To Make Love Stay, she has such a fun take on things and her writing is truly from the heart. I'm so excited that she's shared her love story with you all today as it's such a fantastic story and it makes me smile to know that they are happily together at last. You may read more about her love story here or if you'd like to chat with Caitlin, go ahead and say "hello" via Twitter. And THANK YOU so much again Caitlin for guest posting today. Hope you all had a Happy Turkey day an enjoyed time with the ones you love.
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